Opening channels #4 (i)

If I am being genuine I need to satisfy my curiosity and ask some hard questions.  If I could ask that person a question it would be…”What is it about your image that you feel you have to work so hard on it?” – probably as far away from UPR as I could be.

I could try,  “Who is it that you want to be?”??  Still not without analysis…

How about “What is driving me to ask these questions?” The stuff that supervision sessions bounce off…” What is it about me that I cannot accept that this is who he chooses to be?”  I think being genuine isn’t always about challenging the person who pushes our buttons but probably more about asking the questions that push my buttons and being painfully honest about the answers.

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